Sometimes to get the best results in pursuit of something, everyone needs to consider the timing factor aka time. So also for matters of the bed.
Usually considered to be the most appropriate time to have sex is in the fertile period is the time when a woman ovulates the middle (in the middle of the menstrual cycle, between day 11 to 21). But not many people realize that there are certain times that can be used other couples for sex, as quoted from Womansday, Tuesday (25/06/2013) following.
1. Want incredible orgasm
It may sound strange but the time in which you will feel a tremendous orgasm actually occurred one day before your period. This was stated Laurie Watson, a sex therapist and couples counselor from Raleigh, NC and author of Wanting Sex Again.
"When the accumulation of blood makes you feel heavy uterine contractions that may be more pronounced during the orgasm, and clitoral and labial tissue tend to be more sensitive when you are retaining fluid," said Watson.
To that end, Watson suggested that you try to have sex before your period, even when you are being sensitive and uncomfortable because it could be that sexual activity will make you happy later.
2. Want to fuck longer
Couples can have sex with a longer duration, especially during the holidays such as New Year or the middle off. "When you do not have the burden of work and spent a lot of time with your partner then it is easier for you and him to get sex long duration and in no hurry," said Terence Watts, a psychotherapist based in UK and has specialized in the field of problem psychosexual.
According to Watts, the key is to start slowly. For example, by flirting with her husband in the morning, whispering in his ear or later make a lot of eye contact when eating.
3. Want to make husband crazy
Says Amy Levine, a sexology expert based in New York City and founder IgniteYourPleasure.com, men usually wake up in a state of erection.
"So rather than ask him to wait all day, plug your alarm 10 minutes earlier on weekdays and do a quickie with her in the morning. You might like it too," added Levine.
Moreover, according to Watson, as women age, they tend to be more quickly exhausted in the evenings, so sex at night so less desirable by women. Moreover you will have more energy while having sex in the morning than in the evening.
4. Want to relieve pain
"If you can not easily disgusted, sex in the menstrual period may reduce the cramping that feels uncomfortable," said Levine.
Apparently this is because orgasms cause uterine contractions that can relieve pain (due to menstruation) and at the same time your body releases the hormone oxytocin and dopamine neurotransmitter that makes you feel happy and relaxed.
5. Want to feel confident in bed
If you want to feel confident in bed, make love after exercise and spend a lot of sweat. A study from the University of Florida found that people who exercise will feel confidence in the body is high, even if you do not feel the outcome of the sport itself, for example the addition of strength, endurance or fitness.
This increase in confidence will make you feel more free to experiment in bed, even this bold claim to make you do it in a state of light.
6. Want to feel the frenzy and sex without limits
"Plan to engage in sexual activity once or twice a year as in the summer, because it can give you the opportunity to do it outside the house, for example in the backyard or on the roof," said Levine.
According to Levine, want sex outside the home (outdoor) also showed readiness to leave the comfort zone pair. "Moreover, the sunlight will increase the levels of serotonin in the brain, thereby improving mood and make you more able to enjoy yourself," said Tammy Nelson, Ph.D., a sex and relationship expert from New Haven, CT and author of Getting the Sex You Want.
7. When too busy with work
Schedule a date for the weekend when you and he were not committed to the job and not fatigue. You do not even need to leave home. Turn on the mellow music, and invite the husband alone.
If the child is present in a family, ask for help from friends or relatives to look after the children or to take the children out of the house. Clearly the more romantic and relaxed 'environment' are you preparing for intimate activities both at the weekend, then we can be sure that you get the sex will feel more remarkable.
"Focus on quality, not just quantity," Watts recommendation.
8. Spontaneous or want sex outside the routine
The longer the age of your wedding, the more difficult to be creative in bed. Your partner will get bored after a long time when being made love to a position that's all and at the same time every week.
To enliven the sexual life, Levine suggests in certain days try turn on the alarm so you can wake up at 3 am and ask him to make love to you. Husband certainly would not refuse if you wake him up to it.
